No one prepares you for the true heartbreaks to come with being a single parent! Yeah they don’t stop once the baby comes! You have so many emotions going on while pregnant that no one is willing enough to tell you that your being irrational! Not only are you trying to protect yourself and the baby during the pregnancy but keep in mind it took a father to help make the baby! When you realize you have grown out of love with the man you have made the baby with and realize your about to be in this on your own your heart breaks in a thousand piece! Hopefully you will have a support system! Support system is so important that you need to be very particular about who you open up to! It’s always that one friend or relatives that say “girl the hell with him you don’t need him”, or that one “ that tells you I’ll help you with this baby and never shows” and here’s the big one “ women do this all the time, you got this”! But not one time will those same people sit you down and tell you the hurt